Stand Still or Let Someone Help Us in Case "Of Divorce"

When you get married, you are there to commit to another person body and soul. You get
married under the assumption that you will be together forever and faithful. There is just one
problem with that. What do you do if you or your partner has been unfaithful? Is it even possible
to work through that? Most people would hear these questions and automatically say no. it is a
given right? Well, the truth of the matter is that infidelity can be worked out; however, it takes

the magic of making up

much more than a desire.

Working out a relationship after infidelity occurs can be difficult and nearly impossible for most
people. The fact of the matter is that although we can try to forgive a spouse for cheating, we
will never forget it and that is when divorce becomes a thought. Fights will happen and continue
to happen after someone has cheated in a marriage, but they don’t have to. Spouses that want
to work through an infidelity can if they think first of why the act happened in the first place. The
cheating spouse is naturally wrong and committed a great wrong to the marriage, however often
it is because of an existing problem in the marriage.

Both spouses have to be willing to admit that they each play a role in the problem and that is
wasn't necessarily a premeditated act of betrayal. Infidelity rarely is. There are many different
things that you can do to work out infidelity. Let’s look at these right now:

• Communicate and listen to everything that the cheating spouse has to say and
understand that you are being given reasons for the cheating and not excuses.

• Don’t view the cheating as an attack on you, but the desperate plea that it is

• Seek couples therapy to help you get to the heart of the problem in the marriage

• Take some special time out for you to spend time with only each other to try and
rekindle what your relationship had in the beginning.

There are many more things that can be done to work through a cheating spouse, but these tips
are the most important. Many couples have been able to successful get over this problem but it
takes willingness on both sides. When a partner cheats it is usually because of a major problem
that has festered for a long time. Communicating regularly and working through your problems
when they come up can prevent just this sort of thing from happening. Divorce doesn’t have to the way to deal with this problem. Not if both partners are willing to listen and talk with one
another.

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